This was perhaps the most intense day.
Woke up to say goodbye to the first copilot. Mad dash to the airport which worked out fine - but the airport is always this twilight zone of uncertainty for me. Traffic to the airport, boarding pass shenanigans, and then of course the security line. Three years in Seattle, you'd think I'd have a handle on it, but the interplay between dynamics in a city are still so complex that you cannot really be sure of anything.
Soft goodbyes followed by a mad dash around the city. Former boss, coworker, and saturday house cohorts back to back for business meetings and general catching up. Dashing around Seattle traffic, I was reminded of a bit from the Repo Man trailer - "driving just makes you dumb". Lots of traffic within a city even during the middle of the day.
I've been fortunate to encounter all wakes of people throughout my life, and especially fortunate that they've typically been Good people. Good individuals, good community members, and definitely good karmic forces in the world. The most basic skill I was taught growing up was to never be bored. And so with people, I'm rarely bored -- and so I draw inspiration from everyone.
Topped off the social day with wanderings around the former employer, talking to former coworkers. We used to hang out every afternoon - the tradition was affectionately known as "afternoon meeting". We'd sit in a dark office behind a closed door and discuss corporate policy. We were all mostly peons mind you, but the armchair generals we were, we tried to figure out what we'd do.
Of course much of it was useless. In some ways like political discourse or op-ed when you're unsuccessful. If you have ideas but you never share them with the right people, does it really matter?
No.
Sushi dinner at an old hang out, ruminating on the nature of friendship. The best friends are Good. And they make you Better. The worst friends (who must be discarded) don't make you better, and go further to make you worse. They are in no uncertain terms a kind of cancerous poison. It doesn't have to be this way, but the world is so large and open and diverse that it's impossible to go through life without encountering these people.
We sat over dinner, perhaps reflecting not enough and complaining too much. Perhaps, but I don't think so.
The truth? Sometimes friendship causes you to be blind to the truth. That you may be different from how you perceive yourself. And that your friend may be different from how you perceive them. And thus? Not your friend at all.
A difficult conversation at times, but a necessary part of life-growth. (This was coincidentally repeated today in DC, but more when I catch up to real-time).
The final pre-launch prep was to tend to the storage locker to rearrange some of my worldly possessions. I've been inspired by the internet people who've reduced their possessions to 100 or less. I myself have done away with the need for comforts like a bed or most furniture in the interests of keeping my assets mobile. But I still have a full 5x5 storage locker in suburbia up in Seattle with most of my worldly things. Books. Magazines. Backissues of Wired. Kitchen things. A rowing machine. Computer equipment. It took a while to sort through it to find what was missing.
I never really moved out of it when I went down to the bay area, and in some ways that part of my life is in stasis until I'm ready (if I'm ever) to settle down and have a place that's more than just a standby temporary stop-gap. Moving is a real pain, and the simplicity that a minimal lifestyle affords is totally worth it. When you're ready.
Knowing that I haven't touched any of this stuff in the past year would make you think that I was ready to rubbish it all, but for lack of time, I hesitated. Things were packed up in a rush, and so there was a deferral of a certain level of time commitment complicit with that. One that I've yet to go back on and contribute.
All of the above resulted in a very late departure from Seattle, by way of Fry's for an inverter (where I paid good attention to the car in the parking lot with its rear window smashed, presumably in search of some expensive things that someone had absconded with). Then we promptly stopped just outside of Seattle in Issaquah for some Red Robin foodstuffs.
Driving until 2:30 into the night, beat tired, we checked into a Hilton with abhorrent service. I was given a keycard to a room that clearly didn't work. And it didn't work because the deadbolt was set. And we learned this when the maintenance person they sent up with us - by this time it was 3 AM - used a master keycard to discover that the room was in fact chained from the inside as well.
Yes. A Hilton desk staffer had given me keycards to an already occupied room.
By the time we were in our proper rooms, it was 3:30 AM.
But I can't complain, that was perhaps objectively the worst part of the trip, since the rest went swimmingly.
Brief nap (which is why my second copilot was asleep in his chair, as seen below...) and then onward to day 5 through the bulk of Montana...